Men appreciate a lot of women on a daily basis. They try to steal second glances or get a girl’s attention all the time. But it’s not always a success, either because he’s not trying hard enough or because the woman’s just not interested in him. The infatuation stage of how men fall in love is also the wooing stage of love for men in the dating game.
Understanding how men fall in love is complicated stuff, but quite frankly, he’s nowhere close to falling in love right now even in this stage. All he wants to do is make the girl like him. He shows off his mating potential to her. He plans dates and splurges on gifts to please the girl. He’s definitely not in love, but he does want something good to come out of this stage of impressions.
How men fall in love with a woman is annoying. And it’s more annoying to know that men have to actually make women fall in love with them before they even think about going out with you, but that’s the way men fall in love and they really have no choice about it.
6. You check off all of these boxes for him. People want to know why men fall in love, but I think what's really being asked here is what makes them stay in love. It's likely some relationship gumbo of all of the above. A man might be able to connect with lots of different partners in a lot of different ways, but a truly fulfilling relationship is going to hit all these things in some way shape or form. And what people are seeking out... their needs and desires and how those things are prioritized... are what make people unique. It's how people come to find their "soul mates" (if you're a romantic) or a "good fit" (if you're a pragmatist). And as trite as the idea of two puzzles pieces fitting together is, it's so stereotyped because it's so apt. You fulfill the needs of each other. And keeping that in mind, there's really no way to "make" anyone fall in love with you, short of reshaping your own needs and desires and forcing the fit. But that really isn't going to help you solve the puzzle at the end of the day, is it? BOOM MIC DROP.